The simple secret to obliterating 2nd wife grief

Woman upset with man in background

Recently one of my clients was talking about how she hates being her husbandโ€™s 2ndโ€ฆ

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It was his:ย 

๐Ÿ‘Žย 2nd weddingย 

๐Ÿ‘Žย 2nd honeymoonย 

๐Ÿ‘Žย 2nd time witnessing the birth of his child

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She confessed to me that all of these major life milestones didnโ€™t feel as important and exciting – simply because they had already happened for him once before.ย ย 

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And thinking like this made her feel really sad, and unimportant.ย ๐Ÿ˜ญ

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And itโ€™s true –ย 

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It was his 2nd honeymoon, marriage, childโ€ฆ

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But more importantly, it was alsoย THEIRโ€ฆ

๐Ÿ’•ย first marriageย together.

๐Ÿ’•ย first honeymoonย together.

๐Ÿ’•ย first childย together.

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And…she was forgetting another really important thing:ย 

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๐Ÿ’ซย Second doesnโ€™t mean BAD.ย ๐Ÿ’ซ

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And sometimes, second can be even BETTER than first.ย ๐ŸŽฏ

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(Because well…her husbandโ€™s first wife cheated on him, and heโ€™s now happily married to my client – his 2nd wife).

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And so next time…when you start to feel down about being #2โ€ฆ

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Just remember:ย 

๐Ÿ’–ย Second doesnโ€™t mean itโ€™s bad.ย 

๐Ÿ’–ย And second can be even better than the first.ย 

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