About me
I met my husband speed dating.
On our first date, he told me he had 4 kids.
On our second date, he picked me up from the airport and I was hooked.
He was a package deal – one man, 4 kids. No big deal, right?
In retrospect, l had NO IDEA what I was getting into.

About me
I felt like I was drowning...Until I found coaching
This is my story: I met my husband speed dating.
On our first date, he told me he had 4 kids.
Not immediately opposed, I decided to take things one day at a time.
On our second date, he picked me up from the airport and I was hooked.
He was a package deal – one man, 4 kids. No big deal, right?
In retrospect, l had NO IDEA what I was getting into.
I’m Kristin Lindell, life coach for stepmoms and a stepmom of 4 wonderful stepkids.
Let me be clear: I used to feel terrible around my stepkids.
When I first got married, I didn’t know what to do, or whether the problems I had with them would ruin my marriage.
Before coaching, there were: lots of tears and arguments; a general sense of anxiety and dread; weight-gain and sleep problems (due to too much numbing out with food and alcohol).
I’m Kristin Lindell, life coach for stepmoms and a stepmom of 4 wonderful stepkids.
Let me be clear: I used to feel terrible around my stepkids.
When I first got married, I didn’t know what to do, or whether the problems I had with them would ruin my marriage.
Before coaching, there were: lots of tears and arguments; a general sense of anxiety and dread; weight-gain and sleep problems (due to too much numbing out with food and alcohol)

COACHING SAVED MY MARRIAGE, and MY SANITY
Through my coach, I learned:
How to stop dreading my stepkids and love them unconditionally, so that I was no longer avoiding them and hiding from my family and my life
Disciplining my stepkids is no big deal – I now know how to discipline now from a place of love, with no drama.
How to create a strong and intimate marriage with my spouse, one that can ride the ups and downs of stepfamily life.
Any drama with the ex-partner is actually 100% in my control – and I can determine exactly what I want our relationship to look like.

I can help you love your stepkids & strengthen your marriage.
As a stepmom of 4, I understand exactly how you feel – ignored, unappreciated, jealous, resentful – and I was able to get better with a simple 5-step coaching tool that I now teach to all of my clients.
And trust me, you will not find this tool in any book, podcast, blog or magazine for stepmoms.
By teaching you this tool and my easy-to-understand process for applying it, I will help you enjoy your stepkids, make your marriage last and ultimately, get your life back.

I love working with stepmoms just like you.
I am you. I know all you’ve done for your stepkids. I know that you really want to make your marriage work and I know deep down you just want to have a cohesive family life – one that you actually enjoy and don’t dread half the time. Because you deserve it.
There’s nothing more rewarding for me than watching my clients transform their relationships in their stepfamily. I can help you do the same and it’s so much easier than you think.

I overdeliver for my clients.
I make sure my clients know everything I know and exactly how I changed through a series of one-on-one coaching sessions, online coaching support, lessons, and daily homework.
My clients have more support than they could ever need to help them make permanent changes in their relationships with their spouse and their stepkids.

Want to know more? I created a free training
3 Secrets to Stop Dreading your Stepkids- this training is the best thing you can do for your marriage, and your sanity.
In this training, you will learn:
the real reason why you dread your stepkids (spoiler alert – it’s not what you think!)
how to feel better regardless of what your stepkids say or do
how to create the intimate relationships you crave in your stepfamily